We Used to Be in the Country
We used to, in the old days, in our country, train the youngest child in steadfastness and perseverance, forging his will into iron. We taught him how to work, how to carry out tasks without fatigue or boredom, and how to form sound judgments. Long before his youth, we ate together and drank together, praising and thanking our Lord, with none of us ever alone. I would talk to him by day, teach him by night, stay up with him, explain things to him, and engage him in beneficial play. We would praise his uncle Rajab, speak marvels about him, and show that he was the source of honor and glory. We would tell him, “Visit your aunt, and never forget the day of your grandmother, the owner of your lineage, and your grandfather—say to him, ‘O master.’” Always kiss your mother’s hand, support her, protect her, and bring her joy, so she may live with dignity and happiness. Your aunt is like your mother, your paternal aunt is of your own flesh, and visit your uncle’s children, whether near or far. Reach out to your maternal cousins, and you will find bliss; their company soothes your heart and keeps your mind clear and wise. We used to, in the old days, in our country, teach the youngest child that God is One and Unique, and instruct him in proper Quranic recitation. By night and after the evening prayer, the boy would pray the Isha prayer, have two cups of tea, and then sleep until the new dawn. He would wake to perform his obligatory prayers, and with determination, he would traverse the land, long or wide, with hands clasped in solidarity. He would see his Lord’s blessings from early morning; he would smile at us, and all our neighbors, our own people, would be content and happy. He would hear the stories of trees, water, and stones singing without accompaniment, with pure melodies and sweet songs. He would glorify the One who created, thank the One who provided, and acknowledge the One whose mercy preceded both the elderly and the newborn. We used to, in the old days, in our country, love one another without bitterness, with everyone offering support and solidarity to all, at every appointed time.
